FINALLY THE LAST BLOG

Hello there, yes I know. It is really sad to think that this beautiful path we have been together is getting to its ends. I feel so grateful because of all the things that I have learned and all the things that I have been able to teach and tell to you all. 

Well, we have talked about almost all the possible things about and points about marriage. There is still one thing that we have not talked at all. How is to marry someone that was married before. This is a topic that many people have different points of view. There are people who is going to say that the better is to avoid and not even try it. 

Now, this is a very interesting topic for me because I was able to see all the processes of this type of marriage when I was little because my aunt met this guy and he was divorced. I got to see all the process because my aunt used to live with my grandma. And my grandparents live on the first floor of my house. 

Same as my aunt, my teacher, Brother Williams, had the same experience. He decided to marry his girlfriend who had two sons. This is how he explained it: "I decided not only to marry my wife but to become a father. He said that he had a talk with his wife and said "I want to marry you and I want to be the father of your sons." He said that it is the best thing you can do because you are not only marrying your spouse, but you are also willing that you want to have everything your spouse does: for example, children, problems, and everything you can think of.

I said that I was able to see how my aunt falls in love and accept my (now) uncle. I say this because her husband has two sons. I was so lucky because one of them is my age. So, my aunt used to talk to my mom and get me so my husband can take both of his sons out and we all have days in the park, and the mall, and spend time together. My aunt now calls them her sons, and she is also telling them to call her mom. This is an important thing because my aunt was willing to share everything with him. Now, both of my uncle's sons had it rough when they were little because their real mom was really bad. So, every time they used to go out with us, it was a good thing for them. Because of things were going bad for my uncle, he never got to have custody of his children, but he still got to have a weekend with them every other week.

Now that I think about it, because of movies and things like that, people now on days might have a wrong perspective of step-fathers or step-mothers. People usually think they are bad and they are going to be a terrible example for the step-children.

Personally, I have no problem dating someone with a son or daughter. Actually, I did it once. In Peru is very common to see people having children at a very young age. Anyways, I was dating this girl that had a child. I had no problem with it. It was a really fun time. I am still in touch with her and the child. We stopped dating so many years ago, but we are still talking to each other every once in a while.

Thank you so much for everything, and to read my posts. It was a pleasure and I hope that you guys can use these cool tips and have a healthy relationship and a healthy marriage too.